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01-11-2014 07:50 PM
01-11-2014 07:50 PM
Re: New diagnosis
can you think."......
what 'structure,' has he learnt from you??
for instance; let's think of a film where a man needs his woman to give him ideas how to live......
Let's think of the common story.......something like , 'As Good As It Gets,' starring Jack Nicholson.
in the film, he is a famous novelist who is extremely rude to everyone he meets plus he is struggling with a 'disorder,' that hehalf heatedly tries to get help with. but he only starts taking medication, once he realises a woman acted by Helen Hunt is showing a slight interest in him.
in your relationship. Can you think of times where also your husband has shown he needs or he is showing improvement evens utterly because of you? it could be something little like Jack Nicholson getting to a stage where he doesn't have to avoid the cracks on the pavement.
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01-11-2014 09:51 PM
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01-11-2014 09:53 PM
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02-11-2014 02:02 AM
02-11-2014 02:02 AM
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How can you grow from his silliness ? Ide personally can think of calling you controlling too as a defence if I was doing what he's done.
I'm amazed by your strength.
What did Jack Nicholson do in that film. He kept on and will keep on making mistakes......
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02-11-2014 02:09 AM
02-11-2014 02:09 AM
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But maybe you can pop in your lunch box little incidences where you can remember / see you have had a good influence on him.
For instance, if I remember from that film.......from the admiration of Helen Hunt, Jack Nicholson, tries to make himself into a more decent man. He also opens his eyes and sees the world in a different way and accepts Greg .............. As his friend. What can you think?
Did you know it's the woman who leads the relationship.
How can you keep moving and be a better person in your dilemmas ?
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02-11-2014 06:32 PM
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02-11-2014 06:39 PM - edited 02-11-2014 06:41 PM
02-11-2014 06:39 PM - edited 02-11-2014 06:41 PM
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I always think that when having problems remember the good times.
I don't know though.
It feels like you had temporarily forgotten your role in the relationship.....anyone would though. This is okay. .
You sound warm and caring
And I'm always interested in hearing how your managing it.
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02-11-2014 07:38 PM
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02-12-2014 08:28 PM
02-12-2014 08:28 PM
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Your acceptance quote is soooo timely. After a few relatively normal weeks (after 10 years of hell) it has started all over again. I can;t believe it, but i'll just keep reminding myself of the quote - which was what enticed me onto this page. Thank you.
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02-12-2014 08:33 PM
02-12-2014 08:33 PM
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how are you?