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β07-12-2020 07:50 PM
β07-12-2020 07:50 PM
Re: Eating disorder and more - need a shoulder ......
@Corny So good to hear from you. Was worried when you disappeared so abruptly. But understand your concerns and reasons why you cant be here. Please take care. You are one special corncobber.
Emelia πΆπ·
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β07-12-2020 08:46 PM - edited β08-12-2020 12:44 AM
β07-12-2020 08:46 PM - edited β08-12-2020 12:44 AM
Re: Eating disorder and more - need a shoulder ......
Heeeeeeyyyy @Corny β£οΈπ½
So good to hear from you, even if it is only a fly-by.
You're right, the divorce has gotten worse, and I probably won't get over it entirely, but I intend on internalising vital lessons to be learned from it, and find a life beyond. I was over "him" in the discard moment when he dropped his mask, because he clearly wasn't who I had "known" him to be ...... that was the devastating part, but who he actually is I don't want a bar of. That doesn't mean I can't treasure the life we once had when I thought he was someone / something else ..... someone / something I could believe in and admire ......
Hope you're doing okay, and I think of you often π
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β11-12-2020 08:15 AM
β11-12-2020 08:15 AM
Re: Eating disorder and more - need a shoulder ......
I am so proud of your fortitude FnH and doing the dignified thing and ending the marriage immediately to salvage any modicum of self-respect that may be left. It is sad that it has ended, but it would be even sadder if he was humiliating you for another 20 years having affairs behind your back. This is the lesser of the 2 pains you had to choose from. Well, in the long run. I am sure it is excruciating I doubt she was the first, she is probably the last one in a whole line. Money doesnβt bring out another side in people it brings out the real side. As for his NPD, intrinsic personality still plays a role in how MI manifests, you can see that by comparing everyone you know with the same condition, it was interesting to see in hospital last year when I was in there for a 3rd of the year. But he is not your problem anymore. Take care FnH, just wanted to acknowledge your reply, Corn-Dog
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β12-12-2020 07:53 PM
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Re: Eating disorder and more - need a shoulder ......
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β13-12-2020 08:40 AM
β13-12-2020 08:40 AM
Re: Eating disorder and more - need a shoulder ......
Hey @outlander
I havent caught up with anyones threads but hope you are well.
Have you applied for the NDIS? I want you to apply button, I haven't been in hospital once this year, over 4 months last year, it makes a huge difference to your health.
I saw a seal the other day while out with my support worker, he was the cutest little guy. I have never seen Sydney Harbour looking so clean in my life. The Wealthy & Healthy have gone to the regions, I hope they don't colonise your peaceful town.
Take care little one xx
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β13-12-2020 08:54 AM
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β13-12-2020 12:06 PM
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Re: Eating disorder and more - need a shoulder ......
ππ @Emelia8 ....
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β15-12-2020 09:43 PM - edited β17-12-2020 12:44 PM
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Re: Eating disorder and more - need a shoulder ......
Just wanted to say hi @Faith-and-Hope and let you know I'm thinking of you. Tough(er) times for you at present I am sorry to see. Please take care x hugs always βοΈπͺπ
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β19-12-2020 08:54 PM
β19-12-2020 08:54 PM
Re: Eating disorder and more - need a shoulder ......
Incoming π€ @Faith-and-Hope
Just dropping in briefly and catching up. I'd so hoped it would all be over for Xmas with the paperwork stuff.
I'm not sure what you've got planned but I hope it's with family in a day of harmony.
thinking of you πππ€ππ