Friends, Family & Carers Forum

[Appleblossom]

At least your mother still cares @Shaz51 .

Its hard with a big family.

Times like these that you might have to lead ... as the elders lose their strengths ...kind of leading from behind ... taking the responsibilities as they are most pressing.

Hugs

[Shaz51]

that is soo true @Appleblossom 

Times like these that you might have to lead ... as the elders lose their strengths ...kind of leading from behind ... taking the responsibilities as they are most pressing.---

yes sometimes tht feeling strange and wondering how do i start or continue to lead

any suggestions or tips would be great

@Owlunar, @Former-Member , @Jacques , @Former-Member , @Determined , @outlander 

[Appleblossom]

Maybe like being the last one in a bush walk, so that you can see what is going on up front.  Self Care and dont micro manage.

Hugs @Shaz51 

not sure what the others have ...

[Shaz51]

thank you and hugs my @Appleblossom , you have always been here for me nd with me when i joined xoxoxo

[outlander]

thinking of you @Shaz51

[Shaz51]

hugs to you tooo my sister @outlander 

it is hard to know what and when to do things for our love ones , like you with your Pop xxx

[outlander]

definently @Shaz51 its hard to be responsible for others esp when they are they are adults

[Shaz51]

Hello and hugs @outlander , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Jacques , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Smc , @Adge , @Mrsjones , @Sophie1 ,

very black up here now after being sooo hot and muggy today

we cleaned a house and mowed 2 lawns through lots of sweat

rain now and it feels like stormy weather

we are mowing a lawn for someone who is away -- we mowed today and the owners have arrived home today

mr shaz got a red flag for his licence , all fixed for another year -- ahhhhhh

me --- well the doctor was soo surprised with all the blood tests and scans done , he wondered why !!!!!

anyway the blood tests came back ok , the scan shows my kidney level is down a bit but the gallbladder, liver, panceas, to ok , the kidney was a little sad but ok

so he has ordered some more blood test in a months time and then i see he kidney specialist in march

my mum said she had another fall , don`t think her hip will ever be ok again

[Shaz51]

ammmm feeling tired tonight @Former-Member , @Adge , @Former-Member 

[Former-Member]

You have had a busy day @Shaz51 , is an early night possible/ desirable?