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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

@BlueBay , I brought her some curtains  and a table and a book case for her new room and she replied that she does not care 

Seeing the doctor on Monday but going to find it hard to talk about mum to the doctor in front of her 

She gets soo angry soo quickly now @Zoe7 

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That's how my MIL was. Always angry at us and blaming us for things that we never did (ie take her jewellery). Her memory was getting worse so quickly. 
I feel for you sis. It's really hard.

reg the doctor - is there a way you can make an appt to see the doctor without your mum. Otherwise it will be hard to talk with your mum there. 
hugs xxxxx

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That is a great idea my sister @BlueBay 

I will ask for another appt without mum 

❤❤❤

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Thank you my sister xoxo @Emelia8  for your support  , I hope you are ok 

Sitting with you , mum is out of sorts tonight my @BlueBay , @Zoe7 

She keeps turning the aircon on and off,  argh 

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@Shaz51 
Another thing we found out - when MIL was ratty she would have a urine infection. Apparently it's common. Just a thought??

take care lovely xxxx

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Yes I will get that check out  too my sister xoxo @BlueBay 

Mum has reoccurring bowel obstructions too 

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So much for you to deal with my sister Smiley Sad I can hear how hard it is for you and how much it is taking it's toll on you @Shaz51 I am glad it was just you and Mr Shaz out together today - you need breaks like that for your own wellbeing.

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That's exactly what I was thinking @BlueBay !

 

@Shaz51 , if she is acting especially ratty and out of character, it could be an infection or a medication issue.

 

I hope it gets resolved soon. 

Sounds like you need a big hug from everyone! HUGS!

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Thank you @BPDSurvivor ❤

Mum looks very tired and has aches and pains @Zoe7 , @BlueBay , @Appleblossom , @Emelia8, @billybutton 

Mr shaz and I are very tired soo going to bed soon 

Made mum a cuppa xxx

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Hello @BPDSurvivor 

@BlueBay @Anastasia @Zoe7 

@Shaz51 

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Sounds like it has been a long day.

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