@ENKELI i remember once my middle son was having a rage in our kitchen. i was sitting at the kitchen table watching. my two other children were standing near me watching. my ex was the object of my middle sons hatred during those years and he was trying to calm him down. middle son then pushed ex into the fridge the fridge toppled nearly falling over. i then called the police as they calmed him down or took him to the mental health ward at our local hospital.
you know many years ago a very well known doctor saw my then toddler and wrote out a huge report on him and his parting words were something like " i fear for the future of this boy". he knew all the way back then that middle son was in trrouble. i love my son but i fear for him still. not as much as i did but still ...
you did the right thing having pets. if i had known i would have had pets eeven though i love my children.
