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30-06-2019 07:37 PM
30-06-2019 07:37 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
hello @Former-Member , how was your weekend
we had a big weekend here , with food shopping for us and mum
a wedding to go to yesterday
church and my MIL for the day , took her back home this afternoon
lunch time meeting
my mum not feeling the best today , a bit better tonight
got home late this afternoon and watched shows we tapped
late dinner
2 loads of washing done
me --- amm feeling short tempered , don`t know why and not liking it at all
@Owlunar, @Smc , @Determined , @Former-Member , @Adge , @Appleblossom
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30-06-2019 08:13 PM
30-06-2019 08:13 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
That has been a busy weekend @Shaz51 .
Mum not feeling so well = 😬.
When we are worried, being angry can be a "go to" emotion, I don't like being short tempered either and thankfully am over my grumps. Realised the underlying cause was worry about house sale not being unconditional as yet.
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30-06-2019 08:47 PM
30-06-2019 08:47 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
hugs @Former-Member
off to bed now , got a sore throat and aches tonight soo hoping i am not getting something
hope you have a good night sleep too
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30-06-2019 09:10 PM
30-06-2019 09:10 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Sleep tight Shazzle Dazzle. Hope you are not coming down with anything @Shaz51
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01-07-2019 08:24 AM
01-07-2019 08:24 AM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Good morning lovely @Shaz51 and waves to @Former-Member @Owlunar @outlander
Well Shaz, it sounds like your usual overly busy weekend! Dont know how you do it to be honest.
I hope the wedding on Saturday was a joyous affair and perhaps providing a bit of light from all the other tasks you attend to. Short tempered? Stress will do that, makes you uptight and feeling like a tightly wound spring. Can I gently suggest that you try really hard to allocate a little more time to yourself, at least every other day, and do something relaxing or enjoyable. Whether that is just giving yourself permission to sleep in, to take time out to sit and enjoy a nice cuppa on your own or with loved ones, or having a nice hot bath or long luxurious shower? Not good that your Mum was not feeling so well yesterday morning, but encouraging that she was a little better last night. In general, it sounds like an upwards trend overall? Did I read somewhere last week (I think) that the services your Mum was receiving at home have now been cancelled? Why?
Sherry 🌸💕
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01-07-2019 11:55 AM
01-07-2019 11:55 AM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Hi @Shaz51
You've had a busy weekend and most of it was good - I have to read back on your posts but I thought I would drop a fast thought before I get on with my day
Some Vit c helps with sore throats etc - possibly because we can suck or chew them - I wish you the best and hope you feel better today
Dec
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01-07-2019 03:42 PM
01-07-2019 03:42 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
@Shaz51, big weekend like that, maybe you're more tired than you realise, and that's amplified something in the background? Is hard not being able to pin down why you feel a particular way.
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01-07-2019 03:58 PM
01-07-2019 03:58 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
thank you and hugs @Smc , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @outlander
ohhh mum`s transition team is finished now , it has been 4 months since mum broke her hip
and also she has been home for 5 weeks now from hospital for bowel obstructions , soo fingers cross xxxxx
the wedding was lovely but long time inbetween niblings and the main course and i think I may of drank too much while talking and explaining to mr shaz who they all were .
Last night i was sooo tired but had continually leg cramps all night
my legs have ached soo much today from last night
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02-07-2019 07:22 PM
02-07-2019 07:22 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
welll @Smc , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Determined , @Ali11
things seems to be settling down after a big weekend
at the moment , xx
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02-07-2019 07:25 PM
02-07-2019 07:25 PM
Re: Ups and Downs of Husband`s Mental Illness
Good to hear are quietening down @Shaz51 hope it stays that way for you xo